Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart;
for they are life to those who find them and health to one’s whole body.
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips.
Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you.
Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.
Do not turn to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil."
"...a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away," Ecc. 3
"...a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing," Ecc. 3
"...a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them," Ecc. 3
7.End by praying together for your child and for your son or daughter-in-law- that they will guard their hearts and minds.